Posted by Teaser Company
on April 26, 2025
(And What You Can Gently Do About It)
Introduction:
You’ve bought the cutest weaning bowls, steamed the perfect carrot puree, and sat your baby down with excitement—only to be met with a tight-lipped, head-turned protest. Sound familiar?
Refusing solids is a common, frustrating, yet completely normal phase for many babies. Here’s what could be going on—and how you can respond with calm, confidence, and creativity.
🧠 First: When Should Babies Start Solids?
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Age Milestone |
Guideline |
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Around 6 months |
WHO and most paediatricians recommend starting solids around this age |
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Key signs of readiness |
Baby can sit with support, has good head control, and shows interest in food |
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Not just about nutrition |
Solids are for practice at first, not primary nutrition (breastmilk/formula is) |
🤔 Why Do Babies Refuse Solids?
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Possible Reason |
Explanation |
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Not ready yet |
Every baby develops at their own pace, even beyond 6 months |
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Teething discomfort |
Sore gums make babies irritable and less interested in eating |
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Illness or growth spurt |
A cold or fever, or even a busy growth week, can affect appetite |
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Texture aversion |
Some babies dislike mushy foods or sudden change in mouthfeel |
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Distraction or overstimulation |
Noisy, bright environments can overwhelm a baby during mealtime |
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Too full from milk feeds |
Offering solids right after a full milk feed might lead to disinterest |
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Pushing instead of encouraging |
Pressure to eat can trigger resistance, even in tiny humans |
💡 What You Can Do (Gently)
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Tip |
Why It Works |
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Follow baby’s cues |
Respect hunger signals—don’t force it if baby isn’t showing interest |
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Try different textures |
Some babies prefer soft finger foods over purees, or vice versa |
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Offer solids before milk (but not when starving) |
Slight hunger = more curiosity, too hungry = cranky |
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Eat with your baby |
Babies mimic parents—seeing you enjoy food helps build interest |
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Keep mealtimes short (10–15 mins) |
Prevents stress and builds a habit without overwhelm |
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Introduce one food at a time |
Helps you track reactions and notice what baby enjoys |
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Make it playful |
Let them touch, squish, smell—it’s part of the sensory experience |
🧃 What NOT to Do
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❌ Avoid This |
❗ Why? |
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Forcing the spoon |
Can create negative food associations |
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Constant switching of foods |
Makes it hard for babies to adapt or identify likes/dislikes |
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Comparing to other babies |
Each baby has their own timeline—comparison only adds unnecessary stress |
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Giving up too soon |
It can take 10–15 tries before a baby accepts a new food |
🪴 Real Mom Experience:
“My daughter refused solids for almost a full month. I tried everything—mashed veggies, fruits, rice cereal. Turns out, she just hated spoons. One day, I offered her a soft steamed broccoli floret to hold herself, and she loved the independence. Now I let her lead the way with finger foods.”
📈 Baby Solids Journey Chart
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Phase |
Common Behavior |
What to Focus On |
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6–7 months |
Playing more than eating |
Texture, exposure, and fun |
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8–10 months |
Interest builds, but picky at times |
Variety and trying family foods |
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10–12 months |
Starts eating 3 meals a day |
Balance and rhythm, iron-rich foods |
✨ Takeaway:
It’s okay if your baby doesn’t take to solids immediately. Solids are a process, not a race. Respect their pace, keep offering without pressure, and create positive, playful experiences around food.
Sometimes, the key to unlocking a baby’s interest is as simple as letting them get messy.